Is Your Persona Holding You Back From Love?
Why People Avoid The Truth In Relationships
Do You Believe What You See In Your Love Life?
Dating Discomfort Is Leading You To Love.
Stop Focusing On “Blocks” To Love So You Can Really Find Your Partner
They Laughed At My Dreams, But I Didn’t Let That Stop Me.
Is The Crumb-Grabber In You Controlling Your Love Life?
Why People Lie In Relationships
Should A Woman Pursue A Man If He Doesn’t Call?
Do You Draw Your Self-Esteem From Others?
There Are No Mistakes In True Love
What Stops You From Being Your Best?
The Treasure In Obstacles On Your Path To Love
What I Want In A Man
Can A Middle-Aged White Guy Be A Feminist?
This is What Dating an Alcoholic is Like
Taking the Guesswork Out of Sober Dating
Sex and the Sober Girl
But claiming that most men can’t handle it is defeatist bullshit. “Modern life makes too many demands” is just a rationalization why they won’t put in the work for a quality woman. And while I understand that those are few and far between, when they do cross your path and you have the possibility of forging a strong, mutually prosperous LTR, are you going to walk away because figuring out how to manage your relationship is “too hard”? That’s pure Beta.
Sure, you don’t kill yourself for some wisp of silk and fluff who’s destined for dumpage, but when you have a shot at a real possibility, talking yourself out of it is just stupid. Challenge yourself. Men managed their relationships for centuries before you came along, and they did it with far more challenges than you face. Do your ancestors a solid and be willing to rise to the challenge, regardless of whether you wish to wed or not.
I also find your vision of the future needlessly pessimistic. I admire and respect those MGTOW who have turned their back on the institution and pursued their own destinies. But there’s a difference between making a conscious decision not to entwine your fate with a woman permanently and giving up in disgust on the idea of reproduction within a two-parent household because it’s “too hard”. After a generation of feminist women not reproducing (or abysmally botching the raising of their children) then the feminist ideal that makes marriage so unrewarding and unpalatable by a reasonable man will die out. It already is. In recent surveys, over 70% of the young women graduating college consistently place family higher than career goals . . . and they are increasingly NOT identifying as feminist.
on March 27, 2012 at 11:04 am | ReplyDiamondEyes
I agree whiskey. It’s just another form of dancing like a clown 24/7 while the bitch sits there eating bon bons and evaluating whether your performance is good enough for her that day or not.
And what’s your reward for navigating the ridiculously unpredictable waters of alpha/beta game in an LTR? Being chained to a rapidly depreciating asset, who, no matter how good she once was, is losing value by the day while you continue to gain value.
Why People Avoid The Truth In Relationships
Do You Believe What You See In Your Love Life?
Dating Discomfort Is Leading You To Love.
Stop Focusing On “Blocks” To Love So You Can Really Find Your Partner
They Laughed At My Dreams, But I Didn’t Let That Stop Me.
Is The Crumb-Grabber In You Controlling Your Love Life?
Why People Lie In Relationships
Should A Woman Pursue A Man If He Doesn’t Call?
Do You Draw Your Self-Esteem From Others?
There Are No Mistakes In True Love
What Stops You From Being Your Best?
The Treasure In Obstacles On Your Path To Love
What I Want In A Man
Can A Middle-Aged White Guy Be A Feminist?
This is What Dating an Alcoholic is Like
Taking the Guesswork Out of Sober Dating
Sex and the Sober Girl
But claiming that most men can’t handle it is defeatist bullshit. “Modern life makes too many demands” is just a rationalization why they won’t put in the work for a quality woman. And while I understand that those are few and far between, when they do cross your path and you have the possibility of forging a strong, mutually prosperous LTR, are you going to walk away because figuring out how to manage your relationship is “too hard”? That’s pure Beta.
Sure, you don’t kill yourself for some wisp of silk and fluff who’s destined for dumpage, but when you have a shot at a real possibility, talking yourself out of it is just stupid. Challenge yourself. Men managed their relationships for centuries before you came along, and they did it with far more challenges than you face. Do your ancestors a solid and be willing to rise to the challenge, regardless of whether you wish to wed or not.
I also find your vision of the future needlessly pessimistic. I admire and respect those MGTOW who have turned their back on the institution and pursued their own destinies. But there’s a difference between making a conscious decision not to entwine your fate with a woman permanently and giving up in disgust on the idea of reproduction within a two-parent household because it’s “too hard”. After a generation of feminist women not reproducing (or abysmally botching the raising of their children) then the feminist ideal that makes marriage so unrewarding and unpalatable by a reasonable man will die out. It already is. In recent surveys, over 70% of the young women graduating college consistently place family higher than career goals . . . and they are increasingly NOT identifying as feminist.
on March 27, 2012 at 11:04 am | ReplyDiamondEyes
I agree whiskey. It’s just another form of dancing like a clown 24/7 while the bitch sits there eating bon bons and evaluating whether your performance is good enough for her that day or not.
And what’s your reward for navigating the ridiculously unpredictable waters of alpha/beta game in an LTR? Being chained to a rapidly depreciating asset, who, no matter how good she once was, is losing value by the day while you continue to gain value.