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Ted D says:
July 9, 2013 at 9:26 am
Sophia – “Hope this sorts things out a little. People hear the term FwB and tend to think it’s all about having a relationship with lots of casual sex on the side…”

To each their own. Seems to me, if you are both exclusive it is past a FwB situation, but it isn’t mine to define.

I can tell you that as much as I love my wife and want to make her happy, there will never be an addition of another guy in our bedroom, and I highly doubt there will ever be an addition of another woman. (because I believe in keeping things fair, and I won’t be inviting any other men to have sex with my wife, so…)

I’m not a jealous person in general, but when it comes to actual intimacy of any kind (past a friendly hug or peck on the cheek) I have no tolerance to speak of. Sexually she belongs to me and me alone, (other than to herself of course) and I tend to see it as a stewardship of sorts. Once we became exclusive, she gave herself to me. So, her sexuality is mine now, and she is simply the steward OF it and her physical self FOR my interests. Of course I see it the same way from my side. If I were to have an affair, I would not only be breaking my word to her, I’d be stealing, because I already gave my sexual self to her. And this is also why I’ve put a lot of effort into getting into better shape and exercising. I’m taking care of the body I exchanged TO her when we married. It’s only fair I make sure my physical self is at least worth the trade, and I’m doing my best to make it worth more than it was when she agreed. Who gets angry when they get more than they paid for after all? ;-)