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Morpheus says:
January 13, 2015 at 6:11 pm
Yes, they are definitely worried about being judged, but even so they don’t deliberately lie. Instead they lie to themselves. They are their own harshest critic – judging themselves through their lens of societal values. Thus, although their statements don’t reflect their true preferences, they have no idea that this is the case. If they became consciously aware that their innate desires conflicted with their externally-derived values, they would have no choice but to judge themselves as “bad people” instead of normal people with normal desires.
Jeremy, I think you nail it here.
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Morpheus says:
January 13, 2015 at 6:18 pm
2. Women know what sexually attracts men, also through their experience. But women also have the added benefit of MSM and culture and church, showing and telling them what men like.
Deti, I’m not sure this is 100% sure. I think some women understand this quite well. A perfect example would be any woman who makes money monetizing her sexuality…Hooter’s waitresses, strippers, bartenders. On the other hand, I think some women are actually quite clueless. It actually would be easy to provide a number of examples :) Either that, or they are just lying to others and themselves. I continue to be amazed by the number of women who quite strongly proclaim and seem quite convinced that their “confidence” is their ace in the hole card vis a vis attracting men. Obviously, that is pure solipsistic projection. It’s not that confidence is a bad thing for a woman, it actually can be a positive in my opinion AS LONG AS that confidence doesn’t cross the line into abrasive, argumentative, bitchiness. It just isn’t that much of a factor to sexual attraction one way or another.
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Morpheus says:
January 13, 2015 at 6:21 pm
Recently I read where one woman said that a man being “charming” and “fun” made him more physically attractive. Contradicted herself not only within the same paragraph, but within the same sentence.
https://single-men.startschakel.nl/
https://single-men.linkcommunity.nl/
https://single-men.mijnstartonline.nl/
https://single-men.jouwstartonline.nl/
https://single-men.sellerconnect.de/
https://single-men.handigestart.nl/
https://single-men.jestartpagina.nl/
Morpheus says:
January 13, 2015 at 6:11 pm
Yes, they are definitely worried about being judged, but even so they don’t deliberately lie. Instead they lie to themselves. They are their own harshest critic – judging themselves through their lens of societal values. Thus, although their statements don’t reflect their true preferences, they have no idea that this is the case. If they became consciously aware that their innate desires conflicted with their externally-derived values, they would have no choice but to judge themselves as “bad people” instead of normal people with normal desires.
Jeremy, I think you nail it here.
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Morpheus says:
January 13, 2015 at 6:18 pm
2. Women know what sexually attracts men, also through their experience. But women also have the added benefit of MSM and culture and church, showing and telling them what men like.
Deti, I’m not sure this is 100% sure. I think some women understand this quite well. A perfect example would be any woman who makes money monetizing her sexuality…Hooter’s waitresses, strippers, bartenders. On the other hand, I think some women are actually quite clueless. It actually would be easy to provide a number of examples :) Either that, or they are just lying to others and themselves. I continue to be amazed by the number of women who quite strongly proclaim and seem quite convinced that their “confidence” is their ace in the hole card vis a vis attracting men. Obviously, that is pure solipsistic projection. It’s not that confidence is a bad thing for a woman, it actually can be a positive in my opinion AS LONG AS that confidence doesn’t cross the line into abrasive, argumentative, bitchiness. It just isn’t that much of a factor to sexual attraction one way or another.
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Morpheus says:
January 13, 2015 at 6:21 pm
Recently I read where one woman said that a man being “charming” and “fun” made him more physically attractive. Contradicted herself not only within the same paragraph, but within the same sentence.