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Oh lord. What is this obsession with N? Do you needle everyone you date to find out their N? Do you tell them your N? How do you know if anyone is telling the truth? Do you make them take a lie detector test? Ask around on the street? Absurd.

I’ve never asked any of my boyfriends or my husband about their N and they’ve never asked me. I don’t give a shit. Neither did they. The only thing that mattered was their commitment to the relationship. One shining example couldn’t stop bringing up his previous girlfriends, even talking about their sexual encounters! He was tossed. I’m not going to waste my time on someone who was living in the past. If you are committed then you are committed, regardless of your history.

If you have a N of 0 you will be condemned by some people. If you have a N of 1 or greater you will be condemned by other people. Who cares? Go find the people who won’t condemn you and enjoy your life!

Jesse says:
December 28, 2012 at 11:01 am
That’s some good catsup right there.

Ceer says:
December 29, 2012 at 12:02 pm
@ Renee

…but too often the focus is on females and their likelihood, and I never understood that. As if it’s exclusive to them (unless I’m missing something).

The answer to that has to do with how men naturally view cheating. Imagine you’re a man. You don’t know if you can trust your partner. If she’s cheating on the side, she could wind up cuckolding you, leaving you on the hook financially for 18 years with children that aren’t yours.

In case you aren’t aware, men don’t like that. One study found that men were more likely to choose being raped over being cuckolded. Imagine that, and you may have some idea of what’s going through a man’s mind when he’s trying to determine if a woman will be faithful.

Abbot says:
December 30, 2012 at 3:16 pm
An end run around this festering mess for men is paramount