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Online Dating Misconceptions
There’s this girl who works as the drive-up bank teller at my bank. For about seven months we’d seen each other once a week when I’d stop by to make a deposit. She’s always been very sweet to me, eventually calling me by name (as it is listed on the deposit slip), excitedly smiling when I show up. A couple months ago she asked how my weekend was and if I worked weekends. After some chit-chat, I took the opportunity to apologize in a light-hearted way for calling her “Ma’am” (I’d been ending our weekly interactions with that in lieu of knowing her name). She said very smiley, “That’s ok! You can call me (name).”
About 10 days later I decided I had to ask for her number so I included a note with my deposit saying I didn’t want to get her into trouble by asking over the loudspeaker for her co-workers and passers-by to hear but is it ok to get her phone number. She wrote back on another slip of paper that she’d “love to have your (my) number” but that she’d just ended a relationship and that she’s so sorry. In the two months since this we’ve continued to be very friendly and at ease with each other, and she addresses me by my name every time I see her.
I’m crazy about this girl but I know that all I can do is continue to be friendly to her and talk to her where possible. I feel like I have to just wait this out to see if she’ll reach out when she’s ready. Where do you think I stand?
Matt Says:
March 13th, 2012 at 9:50 am
Hey there,
I met this girl in a nightclub last Friday. She came up to me and my friend, with one of her friends, and we went for a drink and a smoke together.
After that it’s just us too and we for another couple of drinks around the nightclub and talk, we then head back to the dance floor, dance and make out.
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Online Dating Misconceptions
There’s this girl who works as the drive-up bank teller at my bank. For about seven months we’d seen each other once a week when I’d stop by to make a deposit. She’s always been very sweet to me, eventually calling me by name (as it is listed on the deposit slip), excitedly smiling when I show up. A couple months ago she asked how my weekend was and if I worked weekends. After some chit-chat, I took the opportunity to apologize in a light-hearted way for calling her “Ma’am” (I’d been ending our weekly interactions with that in lieu of knowing her name). She said very smiley, “That’s ok! You can call me (name).”
About 10 days later I decided I had to ask for her number so I included a note with my deposit saying I didn’t want to get her into trouble by asking over the loudspeaker for her co-workers and passers-by to hear but is it ok to get her phone number. She wrote back on another slip of paper that she’d “love to have your (my) number” but that she’d just ended a relationship and that she’s so sorry. In the two months since this we’ve continued to be very friendly and at ease with each other, and she addresses me by my name every time I see her.
I’m crazy about this girl but I know that all I can do is continue to be friendly to her and talk to her where possible. I feel like I have to just wait this out to see if she’ll reach out when she’s ready. Where do you think I stand?
Matt Says:
March 13th, 2012 at 9:50 am
Hey there,
I met this girl in a nightclub last Friday. She came up to me and my friend, with one of her friends, and we went for a drink and a smoke together.
After that it’s just us too and we for another couple of drinks around the nightclub and talk, we then head back to the dance floor, dance and make out.