Online dating, I still like you
First impressions
First date deal breakers
Are we becoming intolerant daters?
Most women go on 24 dates before finding “the right one”
Are niche online dating sites a good thing?
Do men and women fall in love differently?
Are we all texting addicts?
Yep. I got that at Church, and at home from every female adult family member in my life.
Although honestly looking back, the Church had very, very little to say about male/female relationships when I was in my teens. Most of what I got then was “sex! – don’t do it!” But my family continued to push the “be nice; be yourself” line well into adulthood.
And ya know, it’s interesting that someone mentioned that age old advice tends to assume the man in question is already attractive to women. I’ve often wondered how mothers, grandmothers, and aunts could sell their male family out so easily. Now I’m wondering if they simply ignored the “be attractive” part because it never entered their minds that their family member isn’t attractive to other women?… Self bias based on the relation? Maybe they simply don’t want to hurt the little guys feelings?
I wish one of them had simply said to me: “get in shape. Find your goal and focus on it. Make sure that goal is never a woman.” But I suspect most women fall into the trap of telling sons and nephews what they THINK they and other women want. Sure, they all want a nice man to take care of them. Provided he is hot (hot enough anyway) and has a backbone. They want that man to “be nice” to her. But the moment she knows she has that without effort, boredom sets in and trouble begins.
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SfcTon says:
November 18, 2014 at 10:36 am
@17 women are breed to favor women and out group men so they have no issue selling out there blood kin males.
So its a PJ siting is it Deti? explains the fake ignorance
First impressions
First date deal breakers
Are we becoming intolerant daters?
Most women go on 24 dates before finding “the right one”
Are niche online dating sites a good thing?
Do men and women fall in love differently?
Are we all texting addicts?
Yep. I got that at Church, and at home from every female adult family member in my life.
Although honestly looking back, the Church had very, very little to say about male/female relationships when I was in my teens. Most of what I got then was “sex! – don’t do it!” But my family continued to push the “be nice; be yourself” line well into adulthood.
And ya know, it’s interesting that someone mentioned that age old advice tends to assume the man in question is already attractive to women. I’ve often wondered how mothers, grandmothers, and aunts could sell their male family out so easily. Now I’m wondering if they simply ignored the “be attractive” part because it never entered their minds that their family member isn’t attractive to other women?… Self bias based on the relation? Maybe they simply don’t want to hurt the little guys feelings?
I wish one of them had simply said to me: “get in shape. Find your goal and focus on it. Make sure that goal is never a woman.” But I suspect most women fall into the trap of telling sons and nephews what they THINK they and other women want. Sure, they all want a nice man to take care of them. Provided he is hot (hot enough anyway) and has a backbone. They want that man to “be nice” to her. But the moment she knows she has that without effort, boredom sets in and trouble begins.
18
SfcTon says:
November 18, 2014 at 10:36 am
@17 women are breed to favor women and out group men so they have no issue selling out there blood kin males.
So its a PJ siting is it Deti? explains the fake ignorance