Where Will I Find Love: Keys to a Successful Online Dating
The Importance Of Breaking Rapport
Does It Matter What You Say To Women
Chance For Love
Nonverbal Body Language – That Women Find Attractive
Your Time-bound Married life
Hurt and Confused in long distance relationship
The Power of Positive Thinking When Dating at Backpage
How Towards Crank out First Date Flow
We all know how sexting begins at Backpage
I no longer think that way and its only been about 4 days.
Looking back at my own habits I now have to say that I would have to categorize myself as a chronic masturbator. Ever since that first mind bending, life altering wank in the bathroom before school scarcely a day had passed when I didn’t ‘knock one out’ Scrap that. ‘Knock a few out’ . Save for several years in my teens I can honestly say that most of it has never been born out of a high sex drive. Boredom was probably the number one culprit but couple that with a baron sex life until I was in my early twenties and I ended up with a fruitless marriage of convenience between my dick and my hand. Also having read some other posts I’m now convinced my excesses are to blame for dull, limp sexual encounters.
Being 31 now and spent the last 2 years travelling the world I do feel myself at some sort of crossroads. Life for me has always been about ‘someday’ or ‘sure i’ll do that tomorrow’. when you reach 30 you do feel your time is more finite and that there is no ‘someday’. Only now. Masturbation perfectly accommodated this mindset allowing me crap sexual gratification which lead no where.
So how is the de-wanking experiment going? Currently not the life altering experience that taking it up was, but I dont think it ever will be. So far its been about not falling back on that fail-safe dopamine hit that always lead to inaction and trying to put my mind to better use. I’m not surprised that I think about sex alot, but what I am surprised about is the number of times my mind suggests an act of onanism.
I look forward to hopefully experiencing some of the effects I’ve read about. watch this space.
I know my post was long-winded but this is honestly the 1st time I’ve ever contributed to a blog.
Anonymous September 12, 2011 at 2:33 am
Posting with Anon and dummy e-mail for irrelevant stuff…
But, I think this article just solved all of my problems.
Vic September 15, 2011 at 2:21 pm
I completely agree with this 100%. I started masterbating at the very early age of 7 years old. I masterbated everyday, sometimes more than twice a day until I was 18. I never got laid in high school and I never had the desire to. I was never really ambitious about doing anything. I just stayed home all day and masterbated. I felt sort of akward around people, and I always wanted to be alone. Then one day I finaly got laid. I wanted more of that but didn’t really pursue it much, because I was still masterbating. Then I heard my friend talking to one of his family members. He said he felt bad because he couldn’t help himself from masterbating. Now, my friend wasn’t the most attractive guy in the world, but somehow he almost always got laid by attractive chicks. That’s when I thought to myself, “Is that the secret? To not masterbate”? So I gave it a shot. I quit coled turkey, and it was soooooo frustrating. I was always mad, and I couldn’t stand still. After a week, it became much easier. I noticed that I was more active and confident around not only attractive females, but all people. I would start making moves on females that I would never make moves on before. I eventually ended up being in a 2 year relationship with a super attractive chick, that I would never in a million years have the guts to even look at for to long during my masterbation days.
The Importance Of Breaking Rapport
Does It Matter What You Say To Women
Chance For Love
Nonverbal Body Language – That Women Find Attractive
Your Time-bound Married life
Hurt and Confused in long distance relationship
The Power of Positive Thinking When Dating at Backpage
How Towards Crank out First Date Flow
We all know how sexting begins at Backpage
I no longer think that way and its only been about 4 days.
Looking back at my own habits I now have to say that I would have to categorize myself as a chronic masturbator. Ever since that first mind bending, life altering wank in the bathroom before school scarcely a day had passed when I didn’t ‘knock one out’ Scrap that. ‘Knock a few out’ . Save for several years in my teens I can honestly say that most of it has never been born out of a high sex drive. Boredom was probably the number one culprit but couple that with a baron sex life until I was in my early twenties and I ended up with a fruitless marriage of convenience between my dick and my hand. Also having read some other posts I’m now convinced my excesses are to blame for dull, limp sexual encounters.
Being 31 now and spent the last 2 years travelling the world I do feel myself at some sort of crossroads. Life for me has always been about ‘someday’ or ‘sure i’ll do that tomorrow’. when you reach 30 you do feel your time is more finite and that there is no ‘someday’. Only now. Masturbation perfectly accommodated this mindset allowing me crap sexual gratification which lead no where.
So how is the de-wanking experiment going? Currently not the life altering experience that taking it up was, but I dont think it ever will be. So far its been about not falling back on that fail-safe dopamine hit that always lead to inaction and trying to put my mind to better use. I’m not surprised that I think about sex alot, but what I am surprised about is the number of times my mind suggests an act of onanism.
I look forward to hopefully experiencing some of the effects I’ve read about. watch this space.
I know my post was long-winded but this is honestly the 1st time I’ve ever contributed to a blog.
Anonymous September 12, 2011 at 2:33 am
Posting with Anon and dummy e-mail for irrelevant stuff…
But, I think this article just solved all of my problems.
Vic September 15, 2011 at 2:21 pm
I completely agree with this 100%. I started masterbating at the very early age of 7 years old. I masterbated everyday, sometimes more than twice a day until I was 18. I never got laid in high school and I never had the desire to. I was never really ambitious about doing anything. I just stayed home all day and masterbated. I felt sort of akward around people, and I always wanted to be alone. Then one day I finaly got laid. I wanted more of that but didn’t really pursue it much, because I was still masterbating. Then I heard my friend talking to one of his family members. He said he felt bad because he couldn’t help himself from masterbating. Now, my friend wasn’t the most attractive guy in the world, but somehow he almost always got laid by attractive chicks. That’s when I thought to myself, “Is that the secret? To not masterbate”? So I gave it a shot. I quit coled turkey, and it was soooooo frustrating. I was always mad, and I couldn’t stand still. After a week, it became much easier. I noticed that I was more active and confident around not only attractive females, but all people. I would start making moves on females that I would never make moves on before. I eventually ended up being in a 2 year relationship with a super attractive chick, that I would never in a million years have the guts to even look at for to long during my masterbation days.