For example, a man who is 5’6″ or shorter is going to be more limited in women than men who are taller. That doesn’t mean he can’t get *any* women, it means he is going to be more limited in women than taller men, because many/most women have a strong preference for men who are at least taller than he is. So he has to work with what he has within that smaller group of women who won’t disqualify him for being that short. Of course, shorter guys can mitigate this to a significant degree by bringing it strongly in other areas, such as physical fitness/physique, charm/game, frame, mastery and so on — and if they want to maximize their return, they should certainly do that, since their height is working against them. However, some guys give up when they realize that this disqualifies them in the eyes of many women, and perhaps in the eyes of most women whom he himself finds very attractive. The key for these guys is to decide whether they want to (1) up everything else (as per the above) and go for the hottest woman he can find, even in the smaller pool, (2) go for finding a woman who isn’t disqualifying short men per se, and probably accept that she may not be a very “hot” woman herself, or (3) sitting out the game in anger and bitterness. A good part of this is realizing his own SMV, the limitations placed on that by his height, and becoming better at maximizing his options within that more limited pool, but accepting that he will have limitations, and deciding what to do about that.
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