When women look at a man sexually the question on their mind is, “Can he fuck?”
Women go for the men they think can fuck. Publically they say they want that Alpha Male that fits their list. Privately the men that get them hot is not always the Alpha Male. See a woman is not only looking at a man but they are feeling him as well. Many overweight men, nerdy men, mama’s boys, have a certain intensity that communicates to the woman, “I will fuck your brains out.” To be clear most overweight, and nerdy men don’t have this intensity.
This goes into your second question, a woman will chase an overweight socially awkward man if she thinks he can fuck. I’ve witnessed it a time or two.
See here’s the thing. The public face of women if different than the private face of women. Many women are undercover hoes. If the man that can get them off is a hunchback that’s who they will go for.
What I teach men who are willing to listen is how to spot a woman’s private or sexual face. A woman’s public face may want the Alpha Male. Again I encourage men to become as Alpha as possible. At the same time in my opinion a man is just as served by learning how to see a particular woman’s sexual face.
I know about women’s sexual faces from being around real pimps, macks, gigolos, male strippers, BDSM Alphas, swingers, and Tantra masters. Other than the male strippers, these men are not the classic 6′ 2″ Alpha Males. Many of these men are ordinary looking but a few can tell you how to make a woman cum without touching them.
To be clear the women who go for these men aren’t the ugly ones. Very attractive women are moved more by the tingle than ugly fat ones. They will chase the man more likely to give them an orgasm.
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